Give mindfully; Balance between selflessness and caring for yourself, otherwise others may take advantage, you’ll forget yourself, run dry and vulnerable.

Choose Self-Love Amidst the Act of Giving

Sylvie
4 min readOct 4, 2023
A picture of water pouring from a watering can onto plants; used to signify the art of giving to nourish others or self
Photo by Markus Spiske on Unsplash

Giving is fulfilling, it nourishes others and the giver, but often, some givers keep going until they forget about themselves; this is dangerous when you don’t realize the path you’re going down early enough. And when it’s too late, you’ve run on empty and want to give up.

Granted, everyone thinks of giving up at some point, but should you give in to that thought? The good news is, however hellish the going gets, it’ll get better. Often, the power is in your hands to master the art of giving, to get through, control your reaction and how you relate to yourself and others, and, ultimately, have a better outcome, however trivial or colossal.

So here’s to grasping the art of giving and getting through the tough times…

Sometimes the advice,

“Keep giving; your blessings will come,”

Can make one wonder, really? When?
At what point do those you give to stop taking?
At what point do they say thanks?
At what point do they have enough?
At what point do they realize that you…

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Sylvie

I see extra in the ordinary & use words to paint it; fueled by a quest for mental health. Lover of forests, fitness, nature, good food & reading & a coffee snob